BY JOEL RILEY
I knew what ‘That Photo’ was as soon as Karah began describing it, as I imagine was the case for many listeners. I have wanted to take a picture of my grandfather for a while now. We celebrated his 90th birthday in June. As a gift for the occasion, I scanned about 100 photos of his life, family, and history. Exploring these photos was an amazing experience for me, and I was struck by the lack of contemporary photos of him, aside from the snapshots of him holding the newest baby born into the family. I knew I needed to make a portrait of him.
I was listening to the episode while driving from my home in Memphis, TN to meet a group of friends for a fishing trip in the Ozark Mountains of Arkansas. When the episode played, I was about 30 minutes from my grandfather's house. It was out of the way, would delay my arrival to meet my friends, and most of all I was intimidated by the idea of calling my grandfather to ask if I could take his picture. However, your and Karah's words were inspiring. When the episode finished I called my grandfather and explained that I was driving through the area and would like to come visit him. He was delighted to have me come for a visit. Before we ended our conversation, with butterflies in my stomach, I asked him if he would mind if I took his picture while I was there. I was relieved when he replied, "Sure, I'll even smile for you!" I told him he could smile or not, and it wouldn't matter to me.
When we hung up the phone, I started my detour, still feeling extremely nervous, unsure how I would make the photo. Would I ask him to pose in a particular location? No. I would let him decide on the setting. Would he be in his undershirt, and if so should I ask him to put on an overshirt? What about lighting? All I had was my Fujifilm XT2 and a couple of retro Nikkor prime lenses, and my trusty Nikon FM2. And perhaps most worrisome, I am NOT a portrait photographer. I am not any genre of photographer. I just take photos because I enjoy it. So I spent the next 30 minutes with these thoughts and others filling my mind.
When I arrived at Papaw's house, he greeted me with his usual charm, telling me to shave my moustache and cut my hair. We visited for a while, me catching him up on family, career, etc., and him recalling stories from his childhood the way he always has. We got to the subject of Halloween, and the good-natured trouble I used to get into with my friends growing up in our small town. He recalled a time when his older brothers tied a rope around their school outhouse when the teacher was inside, and how they somehow managed on another occasion to place a steel-wheeled road wagon onto the roof of a barn. Papaw is a natural storyteller, and perhaps my next challenge should be an interview or series of interviews with him.
The picture was easier than I expected. He told me he would sit in his chair. He had a nice shirt on, and a fresh haircut. The lighting was tricky. We turned on every light and lamp in the room, and I was still pushing the limits of my XT2's ISO. I took several photos while talking to him, and when I stood up he asked when I was going to take the picture! I promised to send him the picture when I could get it processed and printed. This was a special experience for me, and I am very thankful for your podcast. Please keep up the good work!